1. Your husband can always change his mind with the modern lifestyle's around him.
2. Know your family's finances inside and out Pay the bills.
3. If your husband ever mentions separation or divorce to you, put your plan in place because you are playing catch up.
4. Protect your credit.
5. You must have your own money somewhere.
6. Mental illness in high-achieving men often doesn't manifest itself until mid-life.
7. Encourage your husband to put as much money as possible into his company retirement plan.
8. Infidelity is not about you.
9. You deserve to be treated with kindness, respect and dignity at all times.
10. The only thing certain about alimony is that it's certain to end.
Sheilah Vance is the author of newly released book Land Mines, has her own law firm in Philadelphia, and is the President and CEO of The Elevator Group publishing company. Vance is a graduate of Howard University and Georgetown University Law Center. She teaches education law at Villanova University Law School and serves as Executive Director of the Institute for Educational Equity and Opportunity in Washington, D.C. Vance has earned many accolades as an attorney and writer including the Woman of Distinction Award from the Barristers Association and the honor of having her first novel, Chasing the 400, as the first selection of the African American Museum of Philadelphia Book Club.

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